Thursday, May 16, 2013

My wonderful wonder

I think it's time for an update considering so much has been going on and changing.  I am so very proud of all the progress and hard work jojo has done. He has such an amazing team right now (it can change at anytime so I appreciate it so much) every successful session is so much more than just Jojo and a therapist, its a family effort. Its Jay and I actively being engaged in the moment and the Kids helping out and sometimes even doing the activity with Jojo. Its an all day thing. We learn from the different therapist and then as a family we ALL help carry it out into our day.

He has started stacking blocks, playing with toys appropriately about half the time, eye contact is so much better,  he is babbling more and more, has said yea, whaaaat, go, maama. We hear these words very sporadically. Im so happy he is trying. Some days he kinda zones but then he tries. Every little word he babbles and block he stacks makes me smile and cry. The tears nowadays are of gratefulness for getting to a good place. Seeing progression is beautiful

Jojo has had a lot of medical tests done.  We had complete blood work and chromosome array testing done last month. This was the hardest thing my sweet baby has been through,  he was so scared of the entire process. As soon as he figured out that we were in a procedure room he flipped out. Well the tech was obviously shaken by his screaming and after 3 ATTEMPTS my hubby tells her to stop and get the hell away. I was shocked because I am the emotional one but this was pretty much ridiculous. We left and no blood was drawn. We ended up taking him to his pediatrician's office and they did the draw in a few seconds.  I was so glad it was over with!

 During the next two weeks we waited for results and also had an EEG test done to rule out seizures.   This test was hard because of the way he had to keep his head still. With mommy and daddy literally holding him down the test was completed! !  Now, more waiting.

We carried on with the normal schedule, jojo is doing about 15 hrs a week of aba styled hab work and 2 days of speech therapy and OT is coming back on board soon. A few weeks ago we got the calls from the neurologist and lab. The EEG came back clean-no detectable seizures! Blood work was normal, thank goodness. Then he dropped the bomb. Jojo has a break in his chromosome number 6. The more techy term is a micro deletion at 6p23.1 at 459kb. Yeah its complicated but it means that you cant fix whats broke. Means I have a reason for the autism. Also means a whole new worry. Chromosome 6 disorders are extremely rare. There is not much info to go off of. I have found a few online supports and have taken in as much as I can. The final diagnosis from the pedi neurological exam and testing is now: Autism, Global Developmental Delays, Cognitive delays, Encephalopathy (nonspecific brain disease) Since im on a roll I want to note that despite all the Big Word disgnosis I am still going forward with the AAC language through motor planning technique. Its my best hope for a form of communication. He is trying to talk each day. During a puzzle building exercise he blurted out,"I did them!" Team jojo in full affect and always ready for the next adventure. Love you Jojo

Sunday, May 5, 2013

Giving April the bird

The past few weeks have been mind blowing busy and guess what? I see no break in the near future. Autism is an energy sucking jerk. I'm tired. My boy is tired of it too. He seems so miserable lately. I don't know what happened that day 4-1 but it changed him. He has been sick since and has been moody. We have the first EEG tomorrow. Instruction for us is to -
Keep him awake till 10 pm
Wake him up at 5am
Keep him up till the appt at 11
LOL what a fun night and day we shall have. He wakes up twice (sometimes three times) a night. So he will be beyond cranky and tired. They are hoping he can fall asleep during testing. That is not gonna happen. I hope it does and I will be praying and doing all I can to try and make that happen.

There are a lot of viruses and tummy bugs going around right now so we last minutes decided to lay low today and the next few wks. Jojo has been on Antibiotics alot lately and I do not want him to be sick again and have to miss any of the up coming appointments. I am hoping to get them all in before the end of may so we can have a summer BREAK. Wishful thinking, I know! Well here's to a busy but wonderfully blessed week ahead!!