Sunday, September 22, 2013

He is three, Yup and he is STILL Autistic??

   September 5, 2012...a day I will never forget.  Most times we hold on to precious memories and revisit them to bring us joy.  Other memories are there in your massive hard drive you were blessed with and they are not  going anywhere, even if you try!  Thats the case with 9-5-12, the day we heard the official autism diagnosis.  I planned on that evening a dive deep-give it my all kinda strategy to get him all fixed up by his magical 3rd birthday!  Yes ma'am I had it laid out:
read every book possible
web research every waking moment
implement all types of therapy to find THE one
Gluten Free baby
supplements
organic as much as I can
Buy every sensory toy, product, or tool and use them
never, ever let him get into a zone


Okay that was just the first month.....Then came exhaustion and depression and full on seclusion with crying and ice cream.  Went that route for a few days (lol) thats a long time for me.  Then back to therapy and testing.  If you have read my previous blogs you know HOW much testing my lil spinning wonder endured.  The end result after a year of burning myself to the core, aging myself at least 5 years, and sleeping an average of 3 hrs a night:  I absolutely DID NOT cure him, He is still autistic, has sensory processing disorder, and a broken chromosome 6...BUT what I did accomplish is amazingly beautiful:

  I have a three year old and his name is Jojo.  He is perfect.  His smile can light up anyone.  He loves to run and play with cars.  He loves to read books, and spend time in his reading nook.  He loves art and will paint and color with such intent.  He loves to watch the trash truck every weds morning.  He loves to go on drives.  His love for music is evident as soon as you see him bounce to the latest song his sister plays.  He loves his siblings and tries to protect them.  He is a brave little boy in a world he doesn't quite understand yet.  He has the ability to make your heart smile without saying a word.  He loves to love.  He wants to learn.  He is the one of the most precious gifts I have ever received.  I am a better person because of what he has taught me.   

So while I may not have miraculously cured him, I have learned how to learn with him and for him.  I will continue to strive to get the best therapy for him and keep up all my efforts, just with a little less stress.   He has made great progress and I am so thrilled to see it each day.

Jojo is now focusing more and able to complete tasks.  He can follow simple instruction (please give me that-time to clean up-throw this away).  He can use a spoon about 50% of the time.  His fine motor is still significantly delayed however it is improving.  He is now hugging and kissing us, giving high-fives, and showing emotion,  this one is so huge because that means we popped that bubble he was in.  He is able to complete a shopping trip to a familiar store.  He is saying a few words(go, yea, no, jojo, mama, dada) he has blurted out words when prompted but still actively trying and now babbles up a storm!!  He can hold a pencil, crayon, or marker and go at it(a year ago he wouldnt even try) in fact he is so particular about it; he likes to make a small circle in each corner of the paper before he starts.  His sleep is getting better too, we have good nights and wakeful ones and we just make do.  He even has taken to potty training pretty well, we have been introducing it and he likes it and definitely can do it.  We are working on a way for him to communicate it to us, until then its to the potty we go..alot!

We are so proud of him.  He tries everyday and with his schedule and therapist coming and going its a tough round, but this kid is a fighter and at the end of the day...we got this by Knock-Out!!

#Team Jojo.